The Power Of Gratitude

We live in a material world and sometimes we are not grateful for the things that we receive. It is hard to be grateful when something that seems bad happens to us, but it may be a blessing. We all learn from things that happen to us.

Children learn from their mistakes and we must do the same. You can tell a child not to touch something until you are blue in the face, but it is not until they get hurt that they will learn the lesson and sometimes they will get hurt a few times before the lesson is learned. A child that has been hurt will not be grateful for the lesson but they will learn the lesson.

If we are not grateful for what we have now then why would we be grateful later on? There is always someone worse off than you are.

I had a friend that married and became very wealthy. She had three children and lived in a mansion, her children went to private schools, she traveled first class. Life was very good for her, but by her own admission she did not appreciate it.  Because she did not appreciate it her life went downhill, Her husband paid for a month-long holiday for her and the children and whist she was away he sold his homes and businesses.  When she returned she found that she had no home, no car, no money and she was left her with three children and just the clothes that she was wearing and what was in her suitcases.

Friends allowed her to sleep in their spare room until she could find somewhere to live, the children’s school fees were paid for the next term so she had the rest of that term to find somewhere. You can be sure that she was grateful for the use of that small bedroom and for the time to sort things out.

Although life was not easy she learned to be grateful. She had eaten in the finest restaurants and stayed at the best hotels, now she was reduced to living off handouts from her friends. She found a small flat to rent and started work as a temp. The bills were high and she one day found that she had only £1 left in her purse. She was expecting the children home for a week and had very little food in. She was driving a friends spare car and she stopped in a car-park to pick up some milk, as she got in her car to leave a large lorry reversed in front of her and she was annoyed as this would make her late. She got out of the car to complain and noticed a door open and a man was pushing a large trolley out of the back doors of the shop. She asked what he was doing and he told her that the lorry was there to pick up all the out of date food. She asked if she could have it and she left the car-park feeling very grateful because her boot and the back seat of her car was full of food.

Just a few months earlier she would have been appalled if someone had said that they were collecting out of date food from shops to feed their family on and yet here she was doing exactly that.

I am very pleased to report that my friend learned to be grateful for everything that happens to her now and is now in her own home worth more than £1million and has her own company. Her children carried on going to private school and has realized that her happiness does not depend on other people, it only depends on her. Once she had learned to be grateful for what she had NOW, no matter how little it was, she accumulated a vast fortune in a very short time.

When something bad happens try to resist complaining about it and say “Thank  you for the lesson”. You will find that the lesson then becomes less severe and the solution comes quicker.  For more information click here.

 

 

 

 

 

You Will Never Go Any Higher Than You Think

“Nurture your mind with great thoughts, for you will
never go any higher than you think.”  ~Benjamin Disraeli

Are you where you want to be today, if not why not? The answer to that question is very easy. You are not where you wan to be because you do not believe that you deserve to be there. There is something blocking your progress and the only thing that can block you is your own thoughts. The thoughts that you nurture are the building blocks of your future, so if they are thoughts of lack or of failure then your future will be more lack and failure.  however if you choose to nurture thoughts of abundance and success then you will bring abundance and success into your life.

Many people thought  that this was just New Age hype, but even scientists have now discovered more about the power of thought.  It is not something that has just been discovered, it has been round since time began.It does not matter whether you believe it or disbelieve it. The Law of Attraction works either way.

It is very strange but one of the hardest steps to attracting wealth is peoples inability to accept that they deserve it. You may wish for prosperity, you may even pray for it, you may even try convincing yourself that you believe that you are worthy of it. But then something goes wrong and you back track and decide that you were only kidding yourself.  All that positive energy you have built up then just goes crashing down like a sandcastle and you find yourself back at the bottom trying to climb back up that hill.

There is an easier way but we mortals always seem to take the hard way. We never learn from our mistakes; we carry on doing the same thing day after day and expecting a different outcome.

If you mixed a cake mixture and the recipe said bake in an oven for 10 minutes but you decided that you would bake it for 30 then the mixture would burn and the cake would be useless. The next time you used that recipe would you decide to bake it for 30 minutes again or would you remember that the cake would be ruined and abide by the rules and  cook for just 10 minutes.

Yet time after time we are shown a better way of living our life and we still decide to take the hard route. We still tell ourselves that we do not deserve better. Is it not time to let go of that limiting belief and start living the life that you really want.

If you limit your expectations then you will limit your life but when you start opening your mind and expecting more then you start attracting more opportunities into your life.

You will be amazed at how manyopportunities you may have missed because you were not open to receiving them. People have sold their homes and everything that they own because they have heard of an opportunity and they have lived to regret it. Like the man who wanted to own a diamond. He sold his land for a pittance and traveled  in search of his fortune. He eventually died broke and hungry; but had he just dug on his own land he would have found some of the most rarest diamonds in the world, some of which were later set into the crown of monarchies around the world. This is a true story and can be found in “Acre’s of Diamonds”.

When would be the best time to change your life?  Please do not make the mistake that many do and say to yourself “I will start tomorrow!” Because my friend tomorrow never comes. If you want to change your life start now, start today, start right now. You can  do it if only you would take the first step.

How To Save Hundreds of Dollars in Computer Repairs

As you will have probably worked out,  I use a computer to type in my posts and create my pages on my blog.  It is important that I keep it healthy so that I don’t lose my important files and don’t lose access to the internet.  I enjoy working on my blog and it is really good when people take the time to leave a comment.  It is good to know that it is helping people think more about their lives, and, more importantly, begin changing them for the better.

Keeping your computer in working order is essential to get the best out of your machine. I strongly advise following the easy,straightforward steps and tips in this post to maintain your PC and keep it running smoothly and efficiently.

*Security*
Making your computer safe from hackers and malware is one of the first and easy steps to take to maintain your computer, and help keep it running smoothly. Hackers and viruses can access your hard drive without you even knowing, through email attachments and even some sites you visit. Websites are not such a concern now, because most modern browsers will display a warning if you’re opening a site that has been identified as placing malware on your computer.

The other important security measure you can take is to make sure you keep your firewall turned on and updated. Your firewall helps to keep your computer safe from hackers and viruses, which in turn will save you time and money on expensive repairs. Check now if your Windows firewall is turned on. Go to Start ? Control Panel ? Network and Internet Connections ? Windows Firewall.

*Give Your PC a Dusting Down*
Increase your PC’s lifespan by simply keeping it clean. It’s so easy for dust and dirt to access the areas you don’t see. Under your keyboard is one place, and, in your monitor, behind the trackball of your mouse, and in the fan that keeps your hard drive from overheating. Keeping these clean is a trivial matter of wiping them down with a dust-free cloth, or even a damp baby wipe followed by a lint-free cloth. Similarly, removing dust from your hard drive just needs a once-over with canned air spray. This will blow the dust and dirt out of your machine, and keep your computer running smoother for longer.

*Backup Your Data*
The major function of your PC is to allow ready access to data that you use daily, and archive data that you access infrequently. By maintaining your data storage — that is, your documents, photos and music that are on your hard drive — you will need to keep your computer up-to-date so that it helps it run smoothly.   A good place to store all your large files like movies, music and photos is on an external hard drive or burn them to CD.  This will leave more room for your computer to find what it needs when you open a program. Saving space makes your computer run faster, which, in turn, extends its lifespan by reducing wear and tear on the hard drive.

*Keep Your Files Up To Date*
Just as you can reduce wear and tear on your hard drive by backing up your data, you can also optimize your hard drive’s performance by removing clutter caused by old and incomplete files. Below are two ways to make sure your computer isn’t weighed down by files you don’t need:

1. Uninstall old programs
With time, a regular computer user will have a dozen or so programs on their hard drive that had a purpose for particular task, but haven’t been opened for a long time. Removing these is quite easy and will free up your computer up for other jobs.

To find and remove old programs, go to Start –> Control Panel –> Uninstall a program (Vista/Windows 7), or XP users, follow Start –> Control Panel –> Add/Remove Programs. This path will show you a list of familiar programs, some of which you may no longer have a use for. Click on the program, then select ‘Uninstall’ or ‘Remove’.

2. Remove temporary files
You might have documents that were relevant several months ago, but their use has passed. Also, you will download a lot of images attached to emails, such as a signature file. These have no use to you, but they do take up room on your computer. In order to clear these unnecessary files, go to Start –> All Programs –> Accessories –> System Tools –> Disk Cleanup, and select the files you want to remove.  It shouldn’t take long for them to be removed.

So, you’ve done the above, but, perhaps things still aren’t running quite right, what do you do now?  Well, you could go to a computer shop, leave it there for a while until they can check it.  You will be without your computer, or, you could get a useful piece of software that could the parts of Windows that you can’t reach.  There are things like the registry, internet settings, bad sectors, and other stuff that can be easily sorted by running the program.

One program that I recommend is “1-Click-Fix”  which is suitable for Windows XP, Vista and Windows 7.  Easy to install and run, which is what you want, and, it deals with lots of things that keep my computer running smoothly!!

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You Are The Master Of Your Own Destiny

You have free choice on how to live your life. Others can tell you what to do but it is up to you
whether to do as they say or not. Most people think that if they are in debt, the only way they
are going to get out of debt is to get another job or work longer hours. There’s one problem with
this theory, sooner or later you are going to run out of hours. You need to learn how to leverage
your time and make money work for you and not the other way around. Too many of us have
become a slave to earning a living. What happened to the hopes and dreams that you had as a child?
The only thing that is holding you back from a better life is the limitations that you impose on yourself.
You need to get the right mindset and when you do that you will find that you are the master of your own destiny.

You may believe that you already have the right mindset but is it really or is it the mindset that you refuse to let go of?

Most of the beliefs that you are holding on to are not even your beliefs but the beliefs that other people have instilled in your mind.

Years ago some people believed that the earth was flat. When it was suggested that the world was round, most people refused to believe it. They thought that if it was round then they would fall off. They had no idea about gravity, so how could they understand the laws of gravity when they did not know that gravity existed.

Today we know that gravity exists and that it is a Law.  The Law of Gravity is a very real law and today we have learned how to harness that law and use it to our advantage.

You now know that the law of gravity exists and you accept it without question. There is also the Law of Attraction and today there are still a lot of people that bury their head in the sand and refuse to believe that it exists. Some call it “a load of rubbish”, others say that they have tried it but it did not work for them. Others just refuse to even discuss it.

The reason that these people don’t use it is because they do not understand it. They live in fear and so they choose to live by default.

The Law of Attraction works every minute of every day just like the Law of Gravity, it does not have an on/off button. If you choose not to harness it’s power then you still choose to have it working, but not to your advantage.

The thoughts that you have going through your mind each day are the thoughts that have brought you to where you are today. If those thoughts have been about lack, then that is what you have attracted into your life. Put theses thoughts together with emotions and they become even stronger and attract more lack.

When you have a problem how do you react? Do you worry about the outcome? Do you sit and cry and bemoan the fact that problems keep coming into your life? Then guess what you are attracting, more problems. The Law of Attraction does not understand that you don’t want problems it just understands that you are focused on them, so it keeps providing them because you keep calling them.

The Law of Attraction is no respecter of persons, it dos not care if you are old or young, rich or poor, what culture you come from or where you live. It works the same for everyone.  It makes the flowers grow and the crops flourish and it makes you wealthy or poor.

When it rains do you think that it is only raining on poor people, when the sunshines,does it only shine on the rich and famous? No it shines on all and it rains on all. Rich people get problems too, they just know how to deal with them better.

The only thing that stops you having control of your life is fear, when you learn to take control of that fear and turn it to faith(and I do not mean go to church or chapel) then you can start improving your life.

I cannot tell you how long it will take to change your life as that is up to you. It depends how much you want change and how quickly you learn to harness the power of the Law of Attraction. Some people take a couple of weeks, some take a couple of years, some take a lifetime.

Some people say they will try it but they don’t think that it will work for them, to those people I say “good luck see you in the same place next year.”

There is no such thing as trying, you either do or you don’t. Henry Ford famously quoted ” Whether you think that you can, or whether you think that you can’t, either way you are right.”

If you start a job with the thought that you cannot do it, then guess what, you can’t do it. But if you are determined to do that job until you succeed then you will finish the job that you started.

You alone control your destiny, do not give away your future because your past has been unsuccessful. Today is a new day. The past is gone, the future has not arrived, the only time that you have to change your life is NOW. When will NOW be the best time to change you life?

Part of this post was taken from http://www.lovemakestheworldgoround.com

 

Which Mindset Do You Have?

“As a man thinketh in his heart so he is.”

A very old and a very true saying. Have you ever tried sitting in your living room and daydreaming how good it would be to be a millionaire and at the same time thinking to yourself that you will never achieve it. You know you would feel good being wealthier but at the same time you do not think that you are worthy of it. How do you ever expect to achieve success when you are constantly telling yourself that you cannot do it?

Unless you change the way that your mind thinks, you will always be where you are right now.  No one ever got to be a millionaire by holding the thought that they were a failure, and if they did manage it,they soon lost it .

In 1961 Viv Nicholson became famous overnight when she won  £152.319 on the football pools. She had often wondered what it would be like to have such a lot of money and quite by chance she won it. Viv Nicholson did not know how to deal with her sudden wealth and within a few short years was declared bankrupt. She tried several ways to regain her wealth by using investments. She tried recording a song and opening a boutique, but she still ended up losing everything. She found that the money that she craved did not bring her much happiness, but it bought with it many other problems and heartaches.

Over the last decade or so how many have we heard of that have gained wealth and fame rapidly and not known how to cope with it? Britney Spears, Whitney Houston, the list goes on and on.

The problem was not that they did not deserve to be wealthy but that they did not “Think” that they deserve to be wealthy.

You can have all the money in the world but unless you have the right mindset then you will never accomplish your desires and they will remain just “daydreams”, unless like Viv Nicholson you suddenly win a large amount of money.

I used to work for a care company and we looked after an elderly gentleman I will call him Joe (not his real name). During the summer he walked all over Great Britain as a tramp, begging for money for food and sleeping outdoors. When winter came he moved back to the north east and stayed in an old derelict cottage.

The other cottages in the row had double glazing, bathrooms and looked beautiful.The cottage that Joe lived in, had only one room downstairs, had only cold running water, an open fire range, and no inside toilet or bath.  He had bare stone floors and no visible signs of any luxury at all. His clothes were dirty and he rarely washed. My colleague and I felt very sorry for him and used to buy him dinner when it was our turn to visit him. This went on for several years and we wondered why he was left in that horrible place.

One year he did not return and we made inquiries at what might have happened to him. We were surprised to find out that far from being penniless Joe was indeed a multi-millionaire and owned the whole row of  cottages that he lived in. The government had made him spend money on the upkeep of the other cottages, but he had refused to waste money on the upkeep of his own cottage. He also owned a very large estate down south which he was renting to his brother and lots of other properties. He chose to scrimp and save and go without because he was afraid of spending his money in case he went broke.

When he died his brother inherited everything and Joe had scrimped and saved for nothing. Joe’s brother believed that the reason that Joe had the mindset of save, save, save was because of his mother. When he was young his mother and father had divorced and his mother instilled in him that he had to cut down on everything because she could no longer afford the good life. He became the main wage earner and his mother took every penny that he made from him. His brother however was the favourite  and was treated differently. Joe grew up thinking that he had to always take care of his brother and he was not to be selfish. He had got that used to going without for so long that when his mother and father died and he inherited everything he had the mindset that should he have any luxuries himself then he was selfish.

Viv Nicholson’s mindset was that she did not deserve the money so she lost it, Joe’s mindset was that if he spent any money on himself he was selfish. Neither have lived the life that they deserved because neither took the time to get he right mindset.

If you want to be a success, then the first thing that you need to acquire is the correct mindset. You Do Deserve to be happy and wealthy. We were not put on this earth to suffer and go without. Look around you, do you not see the beautiful flowers and landscapes. They know what they are here for, they do not have to struggle to grow and look beautiful they just have to accept. To help you get the right mindset I recommend that you check out The 90 day Manifesting Program.

Happy or Sad It Is Your Choice

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You can choose to be happy right now

It does not matter whether you are very rich or very poor, whether you are old or young, it does not even matter whether you were at the top of your class at school or the very bottom. The truth is that you are the only person can can decide whether you are going to be happy or sad. If you let fear into your mind then you will attract more fear.

 

We humans have the ability to control our thoughts. We have the sole choice of what we feed into our minds. Other people can voice their opinion but it is up to us whether we choose to believe their views or not. If someone calls you a bad name or does something that you think is wrong and you choose to be upset about it, then it is not them that has hurt you but yourself, because you have chosen to allow them to.

 

How you think and what you think is entirely up to you. Do you choose to live your life by default or by design?  You have the ability to accumulate great wealth into your life or great poverty, but you have to learn to use your abilities just as you had to learn to read or walk or talk.

The law of attraction, unfortunately, is not a subject that is taught to us at school. If it was there would be a lot less friction in the world.

Nothing in this world or any other can be accomplished without it first being a thought; Thoughts are the start of every success and of every failure. It is what you decide to do with your original idea that decides whether it moves forward or dies.

If you hold your idea and feed it with the faith that it will work then it will find a way to come into existence.

 

Abraham Lincoln was a failure at even venture he had tried. He was turned forty years old before he had an idea and from that idea he became one of the greatest men in history.  That single idea grew into a bigger idea and the more he cultivated that idea the more it grew.

If you decide that you will not allow anything or anyone to put negative thoughts or ideas into your mind then you will live a more productive and happier life.

Worry is just a state of mind and you can control your state of mind. Do you know that you cannot hold a negative and a positive thought in your mind at the same time?   This has been proven and so all you need do when you find yourself starting to fear something is change that thought to a more positive thought and hold it there. Put on a cheery piece of music or learn positive affirmations. Do something that inspires you. If you refuse to live in fear then you will start to live in faith.

 

When you decide to empower yourself by making the decision to dispel fear you will see that it is much easier to manifest everything that you want, need or desire into your life, no matter what the outside circumstances look like.

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Do You Believe “The World Is Against You”

“The world is against me,” he said with a sigh,

“somebody stops every scheme that I try.

The world has me down and it’s keeping me there;

I don’t get a chance. Oh, the world is unfair!

When a fellow is poor then he can’t get a show;

The world is determined to keep him down low.”

“What of Abe Lincoln? I asked. “Would you say

That he was much richer than you are today?

He hadn’t your chance of making his mark,

And his outlook was often exceedingly dark;

Yet he clung to his purpose with courage most grim

And he got to the top. Was the world against him?

“What of Ben Franklin? I’ve oft heard it said

That many a time he went hungry to bed.

He started with nothing but courage to climb,

But patiently struggled and waited his time.

He dangled awhile from real poverty’s limb,

Yet he got to the top. Was the world against him?

“I could name you a dozen, yes, hundreds, I guess

Of poor boys who’ve patiently climbed to success:

All boys who were down and who struggled alone,

Who’d have thought themselves rich if your fortune they’d known;

Yet they rose in the world you’re so quick to condemn,

And I’m asking you now, was the world against them?”

-Edgar A Guest

We spend our lives complaining about the bad breaks that we get, but if we did not get bad luck we would not appreciate our good fortune. How boring life would be if everything we touched turned to gold. Remember King Midas, he wished that everything he touched would turn to gold. Sounds good doesn’t it? But he didn’t think it through, he got his wish, but he could not eat or drink anything because everything he touched turned to gold. His gift became his enemy.

You have to be careful of your dominant thoughts, or they might just come back to haunt you. It is not the world that is against you it is your own thoughts.

The only limitations that you have are the ones you have in your own mind. If you think that something is beyond your reach then it will be so but if you decide that it is achievable then you will achieve it.

If we do not experience failure how will we know if we are a success?  Everything has to have an opposite; Front/back, top/bottom,up/down, in/out, good/bad, left/right.

It is how we perceive the world that determines our successes and our failures. Some people think of their glass being half empty and some half full.

There are no such things as problems. There are only solutions waiting to be found. Do not dwell on your failures, move forward and claim your success. You are the only one that can change your future, do not listen to people telling you that it can’t be done,anything is achievable if you desire it enough.

If you are ready to change your life and would like help Click Here and claim your free enlightenment messages to help keep you motivated.

Your life can be anything that you want you just have to be determined enough to change it, it is never too late.

Go The Extra Mile

Napoleon Hill stated that if you only use one success principle after you have discovered your definite purpose it should be the principle of going the extra mile.

When used unselfishly the Law of Compensation and the Law of Increasing Returns will keep rewarding you over and over again for your efforts.

If you practice this habit every day for 1 month, at least once a day, without expecting anything back for the services that you have rendered and you will be surprised at the rewards that will return to you.

 

You May Count The Day

If you sit down at set of sun

And count the acts that you have done,

and, counting,find

One self-denying deed,one word

That eased the heart of him who heard-

One glance most kind,

That fell like sunshine where it went-

Then you can count that day well spent.

But if, through all the livelong day,

You’ve cheered no heart, by yea or nay-

If, through it all

You’ve nothing done that you can trace

That bought the sunshine to one face-

No act most small

That helped some soul and nothing cost-

Then count that day as worse than lost.

-George Eliot

How do you spend your days? Do you look to help someone or do you just help yourself?  Napoleon Hill tells us that the most successful men are those that help the greatest number of people. `When you start helping others to be more successful your life will start changing for the better.

When would be a good time to change your life? If you are interested in changing your life Click Here and sign up for your free enlightenment messages. They will give you help and guidance and inspiration.

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Come Back To Your Higher Self

I read the papers every day and oft encounter tales

Which show there’s hope for every jay who in life’s battle fails.

I’ve just been reading of a gent who joined the has-been ranks,

At fifty years without a cent, or credit at the banks.

But dismayed he buckled down, refusing to be beat,

And captured fortune and renown; he’s now on Easy Street.

Men say that fellows down and out ne’er leave the rocky track,

But facts will show beyond a doubt, that has-beens do come back.

I know, for I who write this rhyme, when forty-odd years old

Was down and out, without a dime, my whiskers full of mold.

By black disaster I was trounced until it jarred my spine;

I was a failure so pronounced I didn’t need a sign.

And after I had soaked my coat, I said ,at forty-three,

“I’ll see if I can catch the goat that had escaped from me.”

I labored hard; I strained my dome to do my daily grind,

until in triumph I came home, my billy-goat behind.

Any man who still has health may with the winners stack,

And have a chance at fame and wealth- for has-beens do come back.

-Walt Mason

Napoleon Hill said ” The man who complains that he never had a chance probably hasn’t the courage to take a chance.” How many people have we heard of over the last century that had an excuse to give up and yet they came back fighting?

Christopher Reeve, the actor, had been a very active person all his life until one day in May 1995 his horse balked and Christopher was left unable to breathe and totally paralysed. Many a man would have given up but Christopher decided that he was going to fight on and despite the enormous expenses he faced he also decided that he was going to be financially responsible for himself. He started by using the international interest in his plight to raise public awareness of spinal cord injuries and also began raising money to research a cure.

Instead of wallowing in self-pity he turned his focus from his dilemma into something more positive.Thanks to Christopher Reeve, spinal injuries won great attention.  He used the contacts that he made in Washington to fight for a increase in funding

 Reeve pointed out: “It is one thing to present legislators with statistics, but quite another to make them face real people who testify at congressional hearings or speak out in the media. He raised $55 million in research grants and more than $7 million for nonprofit organizations that still help improve the quality of life for people living with disabilities.

Quite an achievement for someone who had gone from playing the role of Superman in a film, to becoming paralysed. The fall from his horse did not stop the man who played Superman from becoming a real life Superman.

It doesn’t matter what has happened in your past, the past cannot be changed, It is what you intend to do with your future that counts. You write your own book and as the future has not happened yet, guess what, you can choose what to put it in.

Are you willing to sit back and let someone else decide your future or are you going to take control?  There are plenty of programs out there that can start you on the way, one that I use is Enlightenment Messages. They will help to keep you motivated and there is no obligation to buy anything.

Can’t Is The Destroyer Of Dreams

Can’t is the worst word that’s written or spoken;

Doing more harm here than slander and lies;

On it is many a strong spirit broken,

And with it many a good purpose dies.

It springs from the lips of the thoughtless each morning

And robs us of courage we need through the day;

It rings in our ears like a timely-sent warning

And laughs when we falter and fall by the way.

Can’t is the father of feeble endeavor,

The parent of terror and half-hearted work;

It weakens the efforts of artisans clever,

And makes of the toiler an indolent shirk.

It poisons the soul of the man with a vision,

It stifles in infancy many a plan;

It greets honest toiling with open derision

And mocks of the hopes and the dreams of a man.

Can’t is a word none should speak without blushing;

To utter it should be a symbol of shame;

Ambitions and courage it daily is crushing;

It blights a man’s purpose and shortens his aim.

despise it with all of your hatred of error;

Refuse it the lodgment it seeks in your brain,

Arm against it as a creature of terror,

And all that you dream of you someday will gain.

Can’t is the word that is foe to ambition,

An enemy ambushed to shatter your will;

Its prey is forever the man with a mission

And bows but to courage and patience and skill.

Hate it, with hatred that’s deep and undying,

For once it is welcomed ’twill break any man;

Whatever the goal you are seeking, keep trying

And answer this demon by saying; “I CAN.”

-Edgar A. Guest

There is no such thing as can’t, it’s not that you can’t, it’s just fear of failure. Fear is the destroyer of dreams. The best way to conquer your fear is by facing it. Do not let fear stop you from reaching your goals. When you start thinking “I can’t do this!” stop, take break and re-focus. Find something to do that inspires you and when you feel ready again carry on with your task.Remember that you never achieved anything great in one try. How many times did you fall over before you eventually stood up and walked alone, How many times did you fall of a bike before you learned to ride it? When we are children we get up, brush ourselves down and start all over again, but as we grow up suddenly we start feeling our failures and decide to stop trying. You need to start thinking as a child again. Delete the word can’t from your dictionary, have nothing to do with it, replace it firmly with Can.

If we all concentrated on the things that we think we can’t do where would we be today? We would still be living in caves and eating fruit and berries. When is the best time to change your life? If you really want to change then Click Here and sign up for the free  enlightenment messages, they will help change your perspective and move you forward to a happier and more rewarding life.

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